Just a ranting about life, minimalism, gardening, kitchen, food, deco

A man came out of his home to admire his new truck. To his puzzlement, his three year-old son was happily hammering dents into the shiny paint of the truck. The man ran to his son, knocked him away, hammered the little boy's hands into pulp as punishments. When the father calmed down, he rushed his son to the hospital. Although the doctor tried desperately to save the crushed bones, he finally had to amputate the fingers from both the boy's hands. When the boy wake up from the surgery and saw his bandaged stubs, he innocently said, " Daddy, I'm sorry about your truck," Then he asked, "but when are my fingers going to grow back?" The father went back and committed suicide. Think abut this story the next time someone steps on your feet or you wish to take revenge. think first before you you lose your patience with someone you love. Trucks can be repaired. Broken bones nad hurt feelings often can't. Too often we fail to recognise the difference between ...

Everyday be thankful for what you have and who you are. Even though I clutch my blanket and growl when the alarm rings, I give thanks that I can hear. There are many who are deaf Even though I keep my eyes closed against the morning light as long as possible, I give thanks that I can see. Many are blind Even though I huddle in my bed and put off rising, I give thanks that I have the strength to rise. There are many who are bedridden . even though the first hour of my day is hectic, when socks are lost, toast is burned and tempers are short, my children are so loud, I give thanks for my family. There are many who are lonely Even though our breakfast table never looks like the pictures in magazine and the menu is at times unbalanced, I give thanks for the food we have. There are many who are hungry. Even though the routine of my job often is monotonous, I give thanks for ...

For me, it much easier to forgive than to forget, but someone has said that you do not forgive someone until you forget. IS it true? I hope it's not. Because I will hardly to forget for whatever someone has done to hurt me. But then again, what do i get if I keep remembering that terrible moment? I can easily forgive people, but to treat that person the same way as I treat her or him before the incident occur will be very hard for me. But i know, I gain nothing from the hatred, in fact it will create more problem. What if the person that hurt you will need to work with you? Then I have trouble to work then. But the heart is so stubborn. Hatred is a very wrong feeling. Hatred will make you blind and deaf. Hatred will only make things worsen. So, whatever I do I must remember that everything that I think, feel and do will have a repercussion on me, either good or bad. If you do good, of course good will come to you, and vice versa.

Internet is something really big. Many things can be done over internet and some of us cannot live without it even for a day. Beside for fun, internet has become one of the ways to earn money. Although it not as simple as some people think it be, but many still venture in it. Ecommerce, web development, web database and software development services are the example on how people can earn money from it. With so many providers that offer services for Online Services/Internet Service like web development, to earn money through internet has become much easier than it used to be. One of the providers that I really recommend is http://www.cosource.com.au/ web database development is not an easy subject to learn. But today, people do not have to learn it in order to benefit from it. You only need to find a right provider and everything will be done for you. Used to be it will take people months before they can build a great web but now, with a help from a great internet service providers...

There is a Korean boyband that I really like. It's SS501 (it's pronounce as double S five-O-one). there are reasons behind the name. When I was feeling down, I like to watch this video clip, a fan make a parody of ss501 single. The title song is Dejavu. It's amazing how creative people can be. Watch it here But for the real subtitle of the song is I really like the group very much. There are many shows from them and they are funny to watch. I really recommend. To know more abaout the band go to their foum, Quainte501 or Soompi I'll be away until Monday because I need to go for a camping.

The reason I like to read Dale Carnegie books or get lesson from him is because what he said is true and can be a lesson for me so that I can improve on myself. Once i wish that i will stop learning, because learning is a very tiring process, but now, i know learning is need to be done all the time, without stop. One of the way is to read a good book. I also like romance book, even though me myself still looking and waiting for romance. What I going to write is about what Dale Carnegie said is about Fundamental Techniques in Handling People, that are Don't criticize, condemn or complain. Give honest and sincere appreciation. Arouse in the other person an eager want. Have you ever met a person who like to criticize, condemn and even complain? For me, I have. In the law of attraction, if you criticize, condemn and complain, you will make more of the thing that you don't like. Example, when you complaining about not getting a parking space, you heart is in terrible mood. Th...

In my previous post, I've write that I will get my car soon. Well, turn out to be not this week as I have expected, but at least the process of buying it went smoothly, even though it kind shaky at the beginning. Now, I will present to you my new soon to be baby A white myvi. I might get the car by next week, yay!!!!!!!!!!! This is meant that now, I have to be more careful with my spending and has to try much harder to find more money. It kind a sudden decision, but as long as my parents approve of it, I know I have their bless of it. But it kind a pain to me because two days after I make my booking of the car, the price of oil in my country went up by 40% and that has make me speechless and want to cry. But I have to keep think positive and I always think and say to myself, there must be something good at the end of something bad. I must keep positive and telling myself that I can and able to face this challenging time. Oh, I haven't write, what make me suddenly decide to buy...

Well that is me. Brought up in a family where I am the only girl and the gap between me and my youngest older brother is seven years old has make me a lonely girl. I start to go to boarding school since 13 and until 23 I was away, study. The I stay at home for a year due to difficulties to find job and now at the age 25 I am alone again. Is this the cause I am easily bored? I do not think that’s the reason and I do not think it’s a family trait also, but more to my personal problem. I guess laziness is part of the problem and I used to have habit to wait, which is terrible habit. I remember when I was in university, I met many students who wait until last minute to study. Some on the night before exam they will start study. How they do it? Easy. Stay up until the late night and the reason being is that they will remember what they read cause the content is still fresh in their mind. Me? A big no no for me. That only will make me stress. But the weird thing is that, that system act...

Have you lost a good friend? Its terrible feeling, right? I have and I do not know why. If I could ammend my behaviour, I would. Sometime I wish we still be friend. I used to be a person who taken friends as granted, but as I am grow older, now I know how valuable friendship are. Luckily, I still have a few good and closed friends that I still keep in touch. In here, it 12:29 am, 11 june 2008, a birthday to one of my closed friend since in High School, Nafisah. She worked as a teacher in Sarawak. happy birthday Nafisah, may all your wish come true and I know what you wanted the most, right? No worry dear, you will find the right one as soon as possible and it will fulfill all the criteria that you wish for. Don't give up, ok? It kind weird how destiny work, isn't? I remember the second question I asked her during the first time we met. "was when is your birthday? the first question was " are you the new girl who transfer here? Who will asked a stranger a second quest...

I was introduced to Dale Carnegie book by my friend Diya. I love her. Let me tell about her. I met her in matriculation centre of my university in 2002. She treat me very nice and talk to me and always answer my questions. She is very talkative. I am a person with a low self confidence, but the way she treat me make me felt very appreciative. I know a lot of things from her. She also do not show her arrogance even though her family is very well off and some of her uncles are very rich and have a high position in society. I believe now Diya has become a lawyer and hopefully a wife. But sadly, I iam bad at maintaining the relationship. I lost contact with her. The thing is, before I met her, I rarely met a person that will treat me nicely. Only a few and coming to new place in that matriculation centre and meet her, I felt very grateful. Even my schoolmate that went to the same matriculation centre hinted to me that she do not want to be friend with me because she will loosen out the opp...

One of the main reason that I start doing blog is because of money, because once I have difficulties to find job and I do not want to give up or just sitting around to wait for a job to come. Trust me, it is a very difficult period for me. Then my journey to find money in internet begin and it wasn’t easy at all. It wasn’t. But I will not give up. In my journey, I found out many ways that I can get money through internet and one of that ways is by writing article or applying to write for money. It easy, unless you do not like to write, then it will be different story. To write in internet and get money, is either you applying a job in a web that offers a service where you like applying a job or you have a blog, and that blog active, then you can apply to write for them and they will pay you. The payment will varied, but it a good thing. It’s easy, right? One of the web that offer to pay you as a blogger to write is bloggerwave . The bloggerwave gives you the opportunity to make mon...

Have you ever felt like you want to scream that you seem to be at the end of the road? I have and in fact I am now. Well, what matter that so serious that could make me so stress now? It’s none other than the increasing price, almost all the necessary things, the price has gone up. I am scared. Really scared. What I earn now will not possibly enough to make me survive a month, so how should I lead my life? I rarely hardly going out for fun and hardly shopping for cloth, and now I have extra bill to pay, then what should I do? But, that is life. Whether you like it or not, there will be time in anybody life that we will face situation that we hate it. My mom told me that I gained nothing out of complaining. It only make my heart more sick than it already has. Law of attraction reminder : You cannot focusing on the things that you do not like, because then you will attract more of it. In my case, the lack of money make me feel miserable and hurt. Speaking about Law of Attraction, one of ...