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Make other people happy, and you will be happy. Make other people sad, and you will be sad. These totally not in any way is being nosy because making other people happy doesn't need to know who that person is. People tend to make other people happy when the other person has something extra like money, title and is famous. But it should not be that way. Why making other people happy because of reason? However, when we see people less fortunate, and we are more fortunate, then we should make them happy. Just by giving a little that we are capable. Do u realize that it takes a lot of money and time to make rich people happy? But I guess it much easier to make people sad than to make people happy. Oh please, if you cannot other people happy, at least do not make people hate you by you making other people sad.

Something to share... I got this from an email, but I do not know who is the writer... Real happiness lies in making others happy ---- This is amazing, he died of pancreatic cancer in 2008, but wrote a book The last lecture before then, one of the bestsellers in 2007. What a legacy to leave behind In a letter to his wife Jai and his children, Dylan, Logan , and Chloe, he wrote this beautiful "guide to a better life" for his wife and children to follow.May you be blessed by his insight. POINTS ON HOW TO IMPROVE YOUR LIFE Personality: 1. Don't compare your life to others'. You have no idea what their journey is all about. 2. Don't have negative thoughts of things you cannot control. Instead invest your energy in the positive present moment 3. Don't overdo; keep your limits 4. Don't take yourself so seriously; no one else does 5. Don't waste your precious energy on gossip 6. Dream more while you are awake 7. Envy is a waste of time. You ...

Today, I'm feeling happy because I received something unexpected sooner that I think it will be. Wow, it amazing and great and I cannot stop smiling. What I discovered is that when I am feeling happy, I can do a lot of things and things seem to be much easier. I quote from someone, that feelings is the one we determined. People can say whatever they want and things can turn out not the way you want, but the feeling you are having inside, its you that determine it. be happy and sure you find it worth it. :)

Happiness, is it we find it or is it coming to you? For me, happiness is something that you need to find, to look. You cannot expect it to coming to you without you work on it. Everybody looking for happiness and without it, you feel something is missing and your life feel incomplete. But, how to find happiness? It’s not easy at all. Some people easily gain happiness while some struggling even to find the gut to put a smile. Some even with a lot of problems and mounting of debt, still can smile and move on, but some with nothing to worry, but happiness still far from reach. Happiness come from inside, from a small flesh in our body call as heart. Even you have a high iq, but if you do not feel happy, you unable to use your high iq properly. Back to my question, how to find a happiness? I just found recently that to be able to be happy I must be myself. Be who I am. I must love myself, accept my weaknesses and let go of the painful past, and treasure the good life that you have had, pre...

know that if you do not live within the scope of today, your thoughts will be scattered, your affairs will become confused, and your worrying will increase. Forget the past and all that it contained. Being absorbed in things that are gone is sheer lunacy. do not be preoccupied with the future. Because the future is in the world of the unseen, do not let it bother you until it comes. Do not be shaken by criticism; instead be firm. And know that in proportion to your worth, the level of people’s criticism rises. Faith in God and good deeds: these are the ingredients that make up a good and happy life. do not expect gratitude from anyone. train yourself to be ready and prepared for the worst eventuality. perhaps what has happened is in your best interest (though you may not comprehend how that is so) you are better off than many others. calamities should strengthen your heart and reshape your outlook in a positive sense Taken from (’Aaidh ibn A...

know that if you do not live within the scope of today, your thoughts will be scattered, your affairs will become confused, and your worrying will increase. Forget the past and all that it contained. Being absorbed in things that are gone is sheer lunacy. do not be preoccupied with the future. Because the future is in the world of the unseen, do not let it bother you until it comes. Do not be shaken by criticism; instead be firm. And know that in proportion to your worth, the level of people’s criticism rises. Faith in God and good deeds: these are the ingredients that make up a good and happy life. do not expect gratitude from anyone. train yourself to be ready and prepared for the worst eventuality. perhaps what has happened is in your best interest (though you may not comprehend how that is so) you are better off than many others. calamities should strengthen your heart and reshape your outlook in a positive sense.