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Two years after it all has started

One of the blog that I always look on since I start blogging is about debt free blog. It’s by a blogger name Amy Bass and somehow she inspired me to work online to earn extra money through internet. Amy wanted to earn money online in order to pay her debt, and she managed to do that faster than she expect. Wow, incredible. I’m no near her achievement, as I’m struggling. I do have a good and stable job, but to pay my debt, I won’t be able to do so in ten years time. I don’t want to be stuck with debt forever. Sometimes when I feel frustrated with earning online because it totally hard, not as what people say it to be, I will look at my loan statement and immediately I feel the need to work harder to pay it off. I ahd to do it because I know in the near future, there will be more loan I need to do. I want to buy a house, fix my parents house and so many other things that I wanted to do and all of it cost money. Sometimes I do wish I was rich. I remember once, my nephew asked my father ‘ ...

Don’t be afraid of what may happen in the future

Don’t be afraid of what may happen in the future I quoted from a book I read, Don’t be sad, at page 115 : “Most of what is feared to occur, never happens” As I a person who constantly feels fears and worry all the time, this sentence somehow managed to make me calm and realized that there is no benefit of worrying of what will happen in the future. As my lecturer once always said : “Live in the moment”. If not, you will miss out many things. Treasure every moments that you have. Be active, be productive, be happy. Work hard, play hard and proceed the things that you want. Always be patients, because at times, when chelelnges knock you door, let it be and be patient, because in every matters and problems, there must be ways to fix iit. Love yourself, believe yourself and be confident. Don’t be afraid to admit your weaknesses and your mistakes. We human will keep on doing mistakes, because from there we learn. Smile even though when you feel terribly down, because it gives you hope that ...

What ever happens, don't stop smiling

When I was a teenager, I'm not a kind of person who can easily smile. I find it hard to smile and of course to laugh. Even once, my teacher said to me " Don't you know how to smile? Maybe during that time, i went into an arrogance phase, therefore I don't bother much. But as went along, went into university, met new people, make acquaintance with so many people, I learn so many valuable lesson and one of them is don't be afraid to be friends with anybody. Just smile and listen. Yes, it the road of making new friends, I met so many kind of people, where sometimes, I can accept that person attitude and sometimes I cannot. Hei, I cannot be picky because not all can accept my attitude too. Some people are easily mix around, some are funny, some are low self confidence, some look down on me and so many various people. But, it that journey, I believe many of us also did, found a nice person who share their thoughts, and sincere in becoming your friends. I am lucky becau...

Do not be sad – the fundamentals of happiness

know that if you do not live within the scope of today, your thoughts will be scattered, your affairs will become confused, and your worrying will increase. Forget the past and all that it contained. Being absorbed in things that are gone is sheer lunacy. do not be preoccupied with the future. Because the future is in the world of the unseen, do not let it bother you until it comes. Do not be shaken by criticism; instead be firm. And know that in proportion to your worth, the level of people’s criticism rises. Faith in God and good deeds: these are the ingredients that make up a good and happy life. do not expect gratitude from anyone. train yourself to be ready and prepared for the worst eventuality. perhaps what has happened is in your best interest (though you may not comprehend how that is so) you are better off than many others. calamities should strengthen your heart and reshape your outlook in a positive sense Taken from (’Aaidh ibn A...

Do not be sad – the fundamentals of happiness

know that if you do not live within the scope of today, your thoughts will be scattered, your affairs will become confused, and your worrying will increase. Forget the past and all that it contained. Being absorbed in things that are gone is sheer lunacy. do not be preoccupied with the future. Because the future is in the world of the unseen, do not let it bother you until it comes. Do not be shaken by criticism; instead be firm. And know that in proportion to your worth, the level of people’s criticism rises. Faith in God and good deeds: these are the ingredients that make up a good and happy life. do not expect gratitude from anyone. train yourself to be ready and prepared for the worst eventuality. perhaps what has happened is in your best interest (though you may not comprehend how that is so) you are better off than many others. calamities should strengthen your heart and reshape your outlook in a positive sense.