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are not my control, so ignore it. Why bother about it or even thinking about it? It just a waste of time and energy. And even though this energy do not burn our fat, instead it increasing it, but it drain the things inside us, like the ability to think wisely and we succumb to the things that we should not... Hahaha, what am I talking about? ok, the important thing is that do not think too much. Do whatever you think is right but, remember, your definition is right should inline with the right, not your only definition is right. Follow the al-din, the religion because there is where answer and solution you need. I always think, this should not happen, why they behave like that? Hei, I am the one who did that, they should thank me, but all these thoughts make me tired and it drain to exhaustion. So, now I say, ignore, why bother and move on. There are so many things in life.

At times, there are many times that I feel lost of the things I should do, react and talk. I wonder what should I do to make things better or at least do the right things. What is right for me, might not be right for some other people and it could be vice versa. I’ve been in situation where I do not know what I did, until a closed friend of mine suddenly stay away from me. It so frustrating and heartbreaking. AT that time I do not have courage to ask why. But I do feel depress. At many times too, I met people who become so sensitive towards things I do and say, and it become an issue. I’ve been there many times. It isn’t good.   So, I resolved to no talking policy. By the way, I once heard people say that quite is clever.   ^_^ I cannot and will never able to satisfy all people needs and demands. I cannot even meet my own demand, and how can I meet other people demands? And the things that I seem appropriate, might not be appropriate to other people. If I keep indulge myself...

When I was a teenager, I'm not a kind of person who can easily smile. I find it hard to smile and of course to laugh. Even once, my teacher said to me " Don't you know how to smile? Maybe during that time, i went into an arrogance phase, therefore I don't bother much. But as went along, went into university, met new people, make acquaintance with so many people, I learn so many valuable lesson and one of them is don't be afraid to be friends with anybody. Just smile and listen. Yes, it the road of making new friends, I met so many kind of people, where sometimes, I can accept that person attitude and sometimes I cannot. Hei, I cannot be picky because not all can accept my attitude too. Some people are easily mix around, some are funny, some are low self confidence, some look down on me and so many various people. But, it that journey, I believe many of us also did, found a nice person who share their thoughts, and sincere in becoming your friends. I am lucky becau...

This is taken from Don’t be sad book from Aaidh Ibn Abdullah al-Qarni Dale Carnegie related a story of a man who had an ulcer that became aggravated to a dangerous level. Doctors informed him that he had very little time to live. They insinuated that it would be wise for him to make funeral arrangements. Suddenly Hani - the patient made a spontaneous decision : he thought to himself that if he had such a little time left to live, why not enjoy it to the utmost? He thought, “how often have I wished to travel around the world before I die. This is certainly the chance to realize my dreams. “ he bought his ticket and when the doctors became aware of his plans, they were shocked. They said to him, “We most strongly remonstrate with you and warn you: If yo go forward on this journey you will be buried at the bottom of the ocean.” Their arguments were in vain and he only answered, “No, nothing of the sort will happen. I have promised my relatives that I will come back to be buried in the...

It's been a very long time since I update my blog. What happen to me? I don't think I am too busy until I cannot update my blog. It's 2.47 am in my place now. But during these two months, there are many things I learn about me. I learn that I hate myself that always whining and also the facts that things will not always go the way we want it to be. But preseverence and gratitude will bring you patience and hope. It just never give up. I also learn a new things, getting to know more about a friends and people. We cannot change people, but we must change our perception towards people. We cannot expect people to behave the way we want it to be, same like I do not like people tell me how i should behave. At the age of 25, it kind difficult, but accepting people's opinion and listen to them is important. It doesn't matter if I will follow what that person tell me to do, but only listen is enough. It about respect. How can I expect people to respect me when I do not respe...