Show it, say it, and

If you love someone, you have to show and say it. Some people only want to show but do not want to say, but for some, they say, but do not show.  Both could be very misleading. So, if you like someone, or you care someone, say it and prove it.

It is much better than let the person wonder. The wondering process is hard - it could be that what you do can be taken in a positive way or maybe negative. Thus, please do both, or people could misunderstand it.

The body language wasn't all the time will say it all. It also needs spoken words. But if only words are spoken without any prove of it, it could also lead to misunderstanding. Ohh, it is a complicated world.

and the reality hits in...

Money matters... that's all I have to share, because I do not know where to start. But, let's look at these posters that I took from Facebook, ...

Time to save, save and be frugal

As my work would not allow me to get increase through over time work, so, I have to do this - be frugal.

I have to, as I'm going to be 30 this year, I should have a lot of saving. Currently, I do have a little saving, but as I will have to use for my big expenses, it will  not enough. Moreover, I have to start thinking about future, seriously.

I try my hardest not to go to town without any valid reason and refrain myself from buying unnecessary things. Therefore, I was surprised and angry when suddenly my phone charged me with the things that I do not used. It makes me furious and sad. I work hard to save the money, and this phone company could do that to their customer. And since I become phobia, i kept checking my phone charges. I do not want it to happen again.

Some people said, that it much easier to earn more than to spend less. Maybe for some people. But as for me now, I'm started to build my passive income now, so, it much wiser for me to keep saving and be frugal. It wasn't easy at all. The temptation to buy and spend is everywhere and it has become big challenge to me. 

So, these are my ways of saving money

1. Be frugal

2. Used the things that I have now

3. Cut unnecessary spending - going to movie, trip and food. 

When the things get too tough

What will you do when things get too tough? Do you keep on going or quit?

There are things that I will keep on going and I believe there must be ways to get out from it, but if anything fails, it's time to call it quit.

That is what I'm going to do. I really find it hard and I cannot do it anymore. I want to quit because if I do these things, it'm me trying to pleasing people and I'm not sincere doing it and I'm not happy.

Yes, I know there are so many advantages of doing it, but I am not happy. I choose to be happy and I believe that there must be other people who are more suitable than me.

Have a lovely days

I got this tips from facebook on how to have  a lovely days ... well, I think it also tips that i must in everybody lives in order to get a great life...

 Do these even though you are having a lot of problems and the thought of smiling is also hard let alone to do it, but when you do something nice, nice things will come to you. I have to do this, so that I also will have lovely day, every day... 

For a people who are scared of confrontation like me, accepting things as it is is much easier than talk or even face it, but, it will come a time that I need to face it. This thought always come to the mind, how can I smile after all this or with these problems that I face? But believe that you have a great mind that can help you solved the problems and trust it and move it through... 

Have a lovely days everyone....

Count your blessings

Ever feel like you want to get angry with someone because of what they done?

Are you kind a person who just let it out without consider other people feeling?

Or are you a kind a people who bottle up everything in your heart and wait for the time for it to blow up?

Ok, currently I am having all  three situations that I wrote above. I angry with someone of what they done , more to what they said, ( yes, they - a few people), but I keep it all in my heart. There are so many instances that I wish I just said whatever that I feel, but I do not want. Well, people said when I am frustrated and angry, I will said anything that comes up to my mind and in the process I will say the things that I regret of saying it, so I do not want to face it again. But it hurt and my heart doesn't feel calm.

In fact, the problem is that I cannot see that person face to face or ven talk normally to that person without the feeling of angry crept inside.

There is this question in my heart saying, what right you have to said those things? Where is your mind located or you do not have a mind at all?

But then, I do not want to create a more hostile enemy, so what I do now, just keep quite, smile and move on. And I keep count on my blessings that keep coming to me. Yes, I have problems with certain people, but the good things keep coming to me, so I decided to focus on those things, even a little tiny things like, I have a healthy parents who still help me whenever I aksed them for help, even ask them to pay for my house lawyer... and also who needs to borrow her parents money so that I can go to a trip comfortably.

I do not know whether the person who makes me angry has all these privilages that I have, so I do not want to bother. But I really hope to find strength to be able to talk to them normally, even though in my heart, I feel really hurt for what they did.

Make use of what I have now...

 That is my aim now. There are so many things that I wish differently, like

1. I should save and invest as early as possible. 

2. Be more confident

3. Should buy a second hand car as my first car. 

4. Study as much and as hardworking as possible. 

And the list could go on and on.

But, I cannot turn back time. This is now. I should be proud of what I am and have now. In fact, I have a lot than many people. Well, I do not know that for sure, but as long as I have a great family even though problems do arise, but I am happy, a great and helathy parents who actually helping me a lot, a comfortable home to live, a permanent job, a mind that works really well and the list could go on. So, I decided to be grateful for these things that I have instead of focusing the things that I wish I could have and want to have.

One of my bad habit is when my heart says that I want something, I will look for it until I get it and forget about the almost similar things that I already have. Maybe I just put a picture of that things and may it come unexpectedly without me wasting time browsing and thinking how should I get it.