Just a ranting about life, minimalism, gardening, kitchen, food, deco

are not my control, so ignore it. Why bother about it or even thinking about it? It just a waste of time and energy. And even though this energy do not burn our fat, instead it increasing it, but it drain the things inside us, like the ability to think wisely and we succumb to the things that we should not... Hahaha, what am I talking about? ok, the important thing is that do not think too much. Do whatever you think is right but, remember, your definition is right should inline with the right, not your only definition is right. Follow the al-din, the religion because there is where answer and solution you need. I always think, this should not happen, why they behave like that? Hei, I am the one who did that, they should thank me, but all these thoughts make me tired and it drain to exhaustion. So, now I say, ignore, why bother and move on. There are so many things in life.

It is something like this, would you put price on the things you do? I heard a saying there is nothing free in this world, so, based on this saying, isn’t it means that I also have to put price on the things that I do? But thinking back, it cannot be done that way. Not everything can be measure with price. But being too nice is also can be backfire. Let say, you do free of charge for everything you do for this one person, let say that this person is your best friend, and suddenly that person stab you in the back, would you feel hurt and start to questioned back your help to that person? Maybe people with strong heart will say, past is past, just let go, still, the experience will taught you something. Build a defence mechanism so, when something happen your heart will not feel too hurt.  I’ve been in this situation, and somehow I felt necessary. It is not wrong to be really sincere, but it just when people start taking advantage of that sinc...

~ Be Thankful To God Arthur Robert Ashe, Jr. the legendary Wimbledon player was a prominent African American Tennis player who was born and raised in USA, was dying of AIDS. From world over, he received letters from his fans, one of which conveyed: "Why does GOD have to select you for such a bad disease?" To this Arthur Robert Ashe , Jr. replied: The world over. 5 Crore children start playing Tennis, 50 Lakh learn to play Tennis, 5 Lakh learn professional Tennis, 50,000 come to the circuit, 5000 reach the Grand Slam titles, 50 reach Wimbledon, 4 to semi final, 2 to the finals, When I was holding a cup I never asked GOD "Why me?" And today in pain I should not be asking GOD "Why me?" Be thankful to GOD for 99.99% of good things in life. When I hear somebody sigh, 'Life is hard,' I am always tempted to ask, 'Compared to what?' - Sydney J. Harris Invite others towards good with wisdom. Live life with no excuse and love wi...

Do u have this kind attitude? I am, and really, it is not good and wasted. Most of the time, when you do things based on attitude as long as I do it, the product of your quality isn’t good. I know about it, yet I still do it. And when the products isn’t satisfying, I have to redo it again. But the thing is, I should able to avoid it. It is really wasting of so many things, especially time. Remember time is gold.   But then, old habits die hard. Hmmmmmm And because of this…. Actually my habit likes to do the job as early as possible, then left it there, and then when the time to submit is near, I will finish it. Usually, I did able to finish it in time, it just doing job last minute isn’t good. What if, during that time another things come up, how am I supposed to finish it? By the way, procrastination is at work. A work that could be settle in an hour or two could takes a few weeks because of this unproductive attitude. And it happened again. Me and my carelessness and my as lo...

When I was a teenager, I'm not a kind of person who can easily smile. I find it hard to smile and of course to laugh. Even once, my teacher said to me " Don't you know how to smile? Maybe during that time, i went into an arrogance phase, therefore I don't bother much. But as went along, went into university, met new people, make acquaintance with so many people, I learn so many valuable lesson and one of them is don't be afraid to be friends with anybody. Just smile and listen. Yes, it the road of making new friends, I met so many kind of people, where sometimes, I can accept that person attitude and sometimes I cannot. Hei, I cannot be picky because not all can accept my attitude too. Some people are easily mix around, some are funny, some are low self confidence, some look down on me and so many various people. But, it that journey, I believe many of us also did, found a nice person who share their thoughts, and sincere in becoming your friends. I am lucky becau...

I want to be kind and nice to people, but it wasn't easy at all. It requires a lot of patience and perseverance. you need to have strong heart and faith in what you believe what is right and wrong. Sometimes, when you in terrible mood, still you need to force yourself to smile and making eye contact even though that were the last things that you can do during that time. Its all begin with a piece of meat call heart. when your heart feeling good, nice, your body will feel good, but if it vice versa, well, dear, you are going to go through a painful days. I read its all about what you set your mind to, if you take it positively, then your heart will persevere, but if your mind take it hard, well, then it will become a stress, a problem to you and me later on. And this is the tricky part, how to make our heart take it positively? How? It requires a hard work if you just start, like me, but if you have trained to do so since you was a child, then it an easy job for you. Used to be, if ...

Don’t Think, just do it, but do it consistently and do not give up It’s a quote I got from Jackie Chan movie. At times, I really agree with it, as too many thought will hinder my actions, but at times also it will bring danger too, so which one is right? Have you ever seen an ad in the local paper “Make XXX per month, call now for more details!” only to ring up and find out that it is distributing catalogues, then forget it because we can’t be bothered with the physical effort of going out there and doing the work. And YET we still read the success stories- remember these stories have to be true because it’s false advertising. I think these people have worked hard and earned every single penny by putting in and sticking with it. Bought an e-book promising to make money? Next you have to read it and implement the ideas to actually bring in the ‘lolly. It won’t make you a penny left un- read on your hard drive. The same goes for many things - education, just b...

A 16 year American called Monty once had to write a composition about what he wanted to do when he grew up. He took a lot of trouble over it and spent hours writing about his dream of one day being the owner of a horse ranch. He wrote seven pages describing the 200 acre ranch in great detail, and drew a diagram showing the location of all the 400 square foot house that he would build. The next day, he handed it to his teacher. Two days later his teacher handed it back to him, with a big red F on the front and the words, “SEE ME AFTER CLASS”. After class, the boy with the dream asked the teacher why he got an F, and the teacher said,” because this is am impossible dream for a boy like you. You need lots and lost of money to own a horse ranch. What sort of money have you got? Nothing! You come from a very poor family. There is no way you could ever do it. It’s just not possible.” I’ll tell you what. You go back and write another composition with more realistic goal, and ...

This is taken from Don’t be sad book from Aaidh Ibn Abdullah al-Qarni Dale Carnegie related a story of a man who had an ulcer that became aggravated to a dangerous level. Doctors informed him that he had very little time to live. They insinuated that it would be wise for him to make funeral arrangements. Suddenly Hani - the patient made a spontaneous decision : he thought to himself that if he had such a little time left to live, why not enjoy it to the utmost? He thought, “how often have I wished to travel around the world before I die. This is certainly the chance to realize my dreams. “ he bought his ticket and when the doctors became aware of his plans, they were shocked. They said to him, “We most strongly remonstrate with you and warn you: If yo go forward on this journey you will be buried at the bottom of the ocean.” Their arguments were in vain and he only answered, “No, nothing of the sort will happen. I have promised my relatives that I will come back to be buried in the...

I've got this through email and I think it good to share This happened in Japan . In order to renovate the house, someone in Japan breaks open the wall. Japanese houses normally have a hollow space between the wooden walls. When tearing down the walls, he found that there was a lizard stuck there because a nail from outside hammered into one of its feet. He sees this, feels pity, and at the same time curious, as when he checked the nail, it was nailed 10 years ago when the house was first built.. ! What happened? The lizard has survived in such position for 10 years!!!!!!!!!! In a dark wall partition for 10 years without moving, it is impossible and mind-boggling. Then he wondered how this lizard survived for 10 years! Without moving a single step--since its foot was nailed! So he stopped his work and observed the lizard, what it has been doing, and what and how it has been eating. Lat...

A man came out of his home to admire his new truck. To his puzzlement, his three year-old son was happily hammering dents into the shiny paint of the truck. The man ran to his son, knocked him away, hammered the little boy's hands into pulp as punishments. When the father calmed down, he rushed his son to the hospital. Although the doctor tried desperately to save the crushed bones, he finally had to amputate the fingers from both the boy's hands. When the boy wake up from the surgery and saw his bandaged stubs, he innocently said, " Daddy, I'm sorry about your truck," Then he asked, "but when are my fingers going to grow back?" The father went back and committed suicide. Think abut this story the next time someone steps on your feet or you wish to take revenge. think first before you you lose your patience with someone you love. Trucks can be repaired. Broken bones nad hurt feelings often can't. Too often we fail to recognise the difference between ...