Just a ranting about life, minimalism, gardening, kitchen, food, deco

I got this tips from facebook on how to have   a lovely days ... well, I think it also tips that i must in everybody lives in order to get a great life...  Do these even though you are having a lot of problems and the thought of smiling is also hard let alone to do it, but when you do something nice, nice things will come to you. I have to do this, so that I also will have lovely day, every day...  For a people who are scared of confrontation like me, accepting things as it is is much easier than talk or even face it, but, it will come a time that I need to face it. This thought always come to the mind, how can I smile after all this or with these problems that I face? But believe that you have a great mind that can help you solved the problems and trust it and move it through...  Have a lovely days everyone....

Ever feel like you want to get angry with someone because of what they done? Are you kind a person who just let it out without consider other people feeling? Or are you a kind a people who bottle up everything in your heart and wait for the time for it to blow up? Ok, currently I am having all  three situations that I wrote above. I angry with someone of what they done , more to what they said, ( yes, they - a few people), but I keep it all in my heart. There are so many instances that I wish I just said whatever that I feel, but I do not want. Well, people said when I am frustrated and angry, I will said anything that comes up to my mind and in the process I will say the things that I regret of saying it, so I do not want to face it again. But it hurt and my heart doesn't feel calm. In fact, the problem is that I cannot see that person face to face or ven talk normally to that person without the feeling of angry crept inside. There is this question in my heart saying, wh...

 That is my aim now. There are so many things that I wish differently, like 1. I should save and invest as early as possible.  2. Be more confident 3. Should buy a second hand car as my first car.  4. Study as much and as hardworking as possible.  And the list could go on and on. But, I cannot turn back time. This is now. I should be proud of what I am and have now. In fact, I have a lot than many people. Well, I do not know that for sure, but as long as I have a great family even though problems do arise, but I am happy, a great and helathy parents who actually helping me a lot, a comfortable home to live, a permanent job, a mind that works really well and the list could go on. So, I decided to be grateful for these things that I have instead of focusing the things that I wish I could have and want to have. One of my bad habit is when my heart says that I want something, I will look for it until I get it and forget about the almost s...

 Recently, I got my salary. And I do my calculation for the things that I need and must pay... and oh oh...it wasn't good at all. It hard to make the end comfortably. With the things I have to pay and things that I have to save and spend, the figure is really frightening. Before this, this matter doesn't really scare me much, but this month, has been different. Maybe because starting this year, I will be starting to be 30, I begin to feel more responsibility and thinking more rationally. Ok, I think the biggest starting point was since last year, I do a lot of big expenses, like helping my parents house decorations and renovations, buying my first house  (yeahhh, I got my first house) and went for trips ... I felt it was so exciting to actually have a trip. It widen my view of the world and it was so fun, engaging and entertaining that I will not mind to go again. But it cost money to go there even though many were saying that our trip is really cheap.Then I als...

My 2012 has been a great year to me, and for that I am really thankful to Allah. There has been ups and downs and each one of it has been very meaningful to me. I started 2012 with a new place of work. The task become easier compare to the last my place of work. Less demanding and less pressure. But well, each place has it own problems. I encounter mine. But I take it lightly because it is not the problem that can caused me to feel angry. Instead the problem has shown me that I actually have issue with people. Then,turn out what I have to do is to just smile, ignore and do what I think is right. Do not bother what people think, as long as I do my work passionly and I try to be friend with them. Then, I discovered things about me. Like actually, I am not that very patient person. I will get what I want. It just, do not test my patience. It could be that I answer you back, or I will ignore that person totally. Actually, I hate the rush of impatience when it comes. It not good. And I ...

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are not my control, so ignore it. Why bother about it or even thinking about it? It just a waste of time and energy. And even though this energy do not burn our fat, instead it increasing it, but it drain the things inside us, like the ability to think wisely and we succumb to the things that we should not... Hahaha, what am I talking about? ok, the important thing is that do not think too much. Do whatever you think is right but, remember, your definition is right should inline with the right, not your only definition is right. Follow the al-din, the religion because there is where answer and solution you need. I always think, this should not happen, why they behave like that? Hei, I am the one who did that, they should thank me, but all these thoughts make me tired and it drain to exhaustion. So, now I say, ignore, why bother and move on. There are so many things in life.