Just a ranting about life, minimalism, gardening, kitchen, food, deco

 Disclaimer ; These writing isn't mine. It is from twitter .  https://twitter.com/MakadiaHarsh/status/1589233607264149504?t=wIQ1ZNdeLJOF3FcXmnWFoA&s=08   1. . No one is coming to save you No one is going to come and help you and save you from the cruel world. It'll be up to you to make it out on your own, just like everyone else. You are responsible for your own success. If you want something, you have to go out and get it.   2.   The past is already written Learn from your mistakes and move forward. Make the past better by looking at things from a different perspective. Even the most horrible things can have a positive side if you are willing to see it.     3. Tomorrow is not guaranteed Tomorrow is a day that comes with its own set of uncertainties. Live in the present moment and act now, because that is where progress is made.     4. Just because you’re “Busy” doesn’t mean you’re accomplishing more Stop bragging about y...

 Disclaimer : These pictures are not mine. I saw it in twitter and share it in here.  Sources : https://twitter.com/pathforwisdom/status/1589079338762539009   Life is harsh and hard. These reminders are good to know, thus we can understand the life better.  1. Just Do it. Do not think so much .... Once you got stabbed by your so called friend, the trauma can make you unable to trust that person again. Yes, value those who care and show initiative to be in your life. Be kind always. Don't listen to every negative remark thrown at you. Keep learning. It's okay  .. Just keep on walking... Be calm always... It is the truth. Choose wisely.

 Because once, I was a person who like to prepare for in case situation, thinking, that I might need it in the future, thus, I always buy unnecessary things, that end up I do not have the opportunity to use the item, and I wasted so many money, time and energy for all athat, and maybe contribute to the pollution .. If only I follow my parents footsteps, especially my father who only use the things that he already have, buy the cheapest items he could find, maybe, by now, I have extra money in my bank account ... because I was greedy ... It not easy to turn on back time, thus, I have to accept that I already went through that phase and I regret it, so now, I should be more careful in my spending and behaviour in using the money... Money is not easy to come by for me .. maybe for some, it is easy for others, but not for me ...   

  The thing is, you on your own, nobody care about you, so, you need to care about you more than you think, that other people care about what you do ..   What I mean is that, people already ahs so much on their plate to even care about you .. So what you mess up .. it pass, people will laugh, or joke for it, but only for a little while only, not too long, and learn to take it with a pich of salt   Learn to let it go, learn to let it pass .. as life will keep going and move on, and so should you and your mind ..   You see, there are so many other things that you can focus on, instead of what other people might think or what could have happen …   Have you drink water ? have you wash your face, take a bath, clean your room or organize your things? You see, you might think that these are all small matter, but, these are big matters   .. This what could help you stop from doing all the over thinking that you keep on thinking that actually d...

 I used to be this person who wants everything to be complete, everything must have in that instances, or else, i feel, angry, sad and temper. It somehow makes me lose my money, buying unnecessary things, and have  a freak mind .. its either I do it, or I do not do it.. It makes me feel anxious all the time, as I want things to be complete, everything to be in order, or I become this person who is moody and angry all the time. Turn out, I do not have to be that way. because life still can going on smoothly without everything to be in perfect order or without I push myself too hard to have it all.  Because having that mindset isn't' going to help me, but actually making me lose sleep, making me questioned myself , and making me miserable, when  actually life is simple, and wonderful. Life can be still happen as good as possible without me having everything in order. because what I have now, is enough to get me through the day. I always remind myslef, that I have enoug...

  Before this, I was sceptical, scared   and confused. I was in a mess.   It didn’t bring me any good at all as I was feeling anxious all the time and wondering whether you are true in your messages .. and then, after I lash out everything that I am not satisfied … I thought, I will be okay, calm … but turn out, I am getting worst. I cannot stop thinking about you, and so, I decided to run back to you. I confess to you. The thing is, it will be hard for both of us. We are not compatible at all. But, I pursue, with the hope that you are kind, because to me, you do like kind. The only compatibility that you and I have, is because our houses are near with each other. I believe that will be the main reason…. As for now, I am trying to make this work, because I want to have a family of my own. What I wish in husband…. I am not sure that I can find it in you … because the thing that I most look for in a husband is the ability for the guy to provide for me. Provide me wi...