A note to myself, an overthinker, low self confidence me …

The thing is, you on your own, nobody care about you, so, you need to care about you more than you think, that other people care about what you do ..

What I mean is that, people already ahs so much on their plate to even care about you ..

So what you mess up .. it pass, people will laugh, or joke for it, but only for a little while only, not too long, and learn to take it with a pich of salt

Learn to let it go, learn to let it pass .. as life will keep going and move on, and so should you and your mind ..

You see, there are so many other things that you can focus on, instead of what other people might think or what could have happen …

Have you drink water ? have you wash your face, take a bath, clean your room or organize your things? You see, you might think that these are all small matter, but, these are big matters ..

This what could help you stop from doing all the over thinking that you keep on thinking that actually do not give you benefits at all, as it makes you stuck and unable to move …

There are so many things to look forward to, like lunch, dinner, new book, that great movie that you haven’t been able to watch and the list go on …

Lastly, the past is past, it is already gone, no need to dig it back .. let it buried … let it gone …

Let’s look forward to new things, like the writing that you want to make, learn to write and publish book, make a tiktok video and there are so many things to look forward to. You see, life is great, let’s be great for our own self .

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