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Got this from a facebook.... During a seminar, a woman asked a common question. She said, "How do I know if I married the right person?" I noticed that there was a man sitting next to her so I said, "It depends. Is that your husband?" In all seriousness, she answered "How... do you know?" Let me answer this question because the chances are good that it's weighing o n your mind.. Here's the answer. EVERY relationship has a cycle. In the beginning, you fell in love with your spouse. You anticipated their call, wanted their touch, and liked their idiosyncrasies. Falling in love with your spouse wasn't hard. In fact, it was a completely natural and spontaneous experience. You didn't have to DO anything. That's why it's called "falling" in love...Because it's happening TO YOU. People in love sometimes say, "I was swept off my feet." Think about the imagery of that expression. It implies that...

Hmmm.... money is really a very sensitive issue, isn't? And it kind frustrating to see when the salary come in, more than half of it go to pay loans... and loans are still there... and then I start counting days when I can finish pay the loans.... When I'm starting liking surfing internet, one of the blog that really inspired me is Amy Bass blog... her freedebtgoal blog. It is good blog. She will post how much she get from her online earning journey  and I think her hard work has been paid off. That's good, isn't? Once, I found it ridiculous to have two jobs in order to earn money, but now, I find it normal and even if that person has more than two jobs I found it normal now. Considering so many pricing hikes nowadays and the need to fulfill so many wishes and desires, having extra jobs is common. I know someone who has more than two jobs. And now i found it ridiculous when people kept complaining having not enough money and yet do nothing about it, but at the s...

Got it from a website, and share it here. These are quotations from famous people about hard work and perseverance and of course the right mind set.  It's fine to celebrate success but it is more important to heed the lessons of failure." ~ Bill Gates "As long as your going to be thinking anyway, think big." ~ Donald Trump "The last thing that people want to hear is the plain simple fact that the rich think differently [about money] than the poor ... They have what I call a wealthy mindset." ~ Robert G. Allen "If you work for money, you give the power to your employer. If your money works for you, you keep and control the power." ~ Robert T. Kiyosaki "Flaming enthusiasm, backed by horse sense and persistence, is the quality that most frequently makes for success." ~ Dale Carnegie "Actually, I'm an overnight success. But it took twenty years." ~ Monty Hall "I don't look to jump over 7-foot bars: I look ...

Even though you’ve done so much, so much and you thought it just it should be, you’ve done good things, so the other party must also should do good to you, but it not always that case. In fact, do not even expect that that person will do good back to you. I’ve been there a few times. I guess my mistake was to expect something in return. It can never work that way. Even   though you think you have helped that person a lot. And you never asked anything   in return, and when you asked a favour form that person, it is just norm for that person to help you. But too bad, it will not work that way. That’s why never expect anything in return. Lesson here be very sincere. Because there is something you have to remember, you do kind, the favour will return back to you much more, but from different person and in different forms, sometimes in unimaginable ways. This is what somebody told me when I was too hurt by that person actions. Reminder for me, do not even bother to think why that...

Bruce Jenner (Olympic Champion / Husband of Kris Kardashian) stated that there are 4 Keys to Success : Gamble, Cheat, Lie and Steal. • gamble - dare to take risks • cheat - cheat those who would hold you back • lie - believe in the love you have from others • steal - steal every moment of time It is simple, and seems easy, isn't? GHXXXHX22499949

 Do you bring your work home? For me, it is not a good idea, and as much as I hate bringing work home, I always find myself doing it again and again. And turn out I always unable to finish or even do the work that I've bringing back home. Ironic, isn't? But that is because I felt bad leaving the unfinish work at work and try hard to do it at home. But usually when I'm at home, I do not have any motivation to do my related work thing. But most of the times, I cannot help it. At work, I rarely eat because I prefer to do and finish my work, but still unable to finish it. The work is neverending. And by the time I'm arriving home, I'm too tired to face it again, even though I know I should. Thinking back, it is like school children, where I have homework to do at home. Is this how it supposed to be? Isn't this show that work has taken control of my life? I do not like that. Therefore, I've do somethings that are out of my job scope. I'm taking license ...

picture taken from h ere ; In life there are so many things to chase the dreams and hopes that really wanted to be fulfill. But it wasn’t easy, so, there are wishes and hopes that need to be pass at the expense of others hope. Kind sad, but it hard to achieve everything. But it doesn’t stop us to pursue what we want. We just walk ahead, and hoping and praying that there will be other ways to achieve what we are dreaming for. Are human too greedy to hope for so many things? Or, why is it so hard to have what I want? Are my wishes will come out true one day? Hmm, no one can answer these questions, but I know, what I can do is to move on, work on and never give up. Whatever you can set your mind to, you can achieve it. I’ve heard the quote. Then, whatever your heart has set something to it, there is no other way, but you will work hard to achieve it and you will get it. Is it true? It sounds so simple. But think about it, when you want something so badly, you work hard to achieve it, r...