Just a ranting about life, minimalism, gardening, kitchen, food, deco

  Gardening, it is wonderful. It started with my experience as I felt that gardening is awesome as it makes me happy. I still remember planting my first seeds and watching them sprout into seedlings. It was magical! Since then, gardening has become one of my favorite hobbies.   There's just something so satisfying about digging in the dirt, nurturing plants, and watching them grow and produce flowers, vegetables, or herbs. Gardening is a great way to get outdoors, immerse yourself in nature, and create beauty with your own two hands. I love waking up in the morning and stepping outside to see how my garden has transformed overnight. The vibrant colors of blossoms and leaves lift my mood instantly. Tending to my plants and pruning away dead leaves feels almost therapeutic. It's a calming ritual that helps me relax and reduces stress.   One of the best parts of gardening is harvesting fresh fruits, veggies and herbs. There's no comparison to the flavor of garden tomatoes or...

 Today, I woke up and could not continue on with my sleep even though it is holiday...  So, I woke up, did my prayer, cook breakfast and do some cleaning by getting rid of things that unnecessary ... I use these method when trying to clean and declutter my home. 1. Keep what I need in the most easiest place that I could easily reach.  2. Organized my items in most pleasant way possible - because the items are a lot, I have to be creative  3. Get rid of things that I do not use - but, it is had when your husband likes to keep things ...     

 It has been so long since I last posted in this blog.  Maybe I should rewrite back in here considering one of the therapeutic a person can do to deal with daily life challenges is through writing ...  Actually, I have a lot of things in my mind. but I always wait for the right moment, when the truth is, there is no right moment, but just do.  Recently, I always thinking of retire early because I feel that I do not have the energy to run away from things anymore, as that's what I always do, running away from things that I do not feel comfortable of doing.  And it has worked wonder for me, as I avoid drama, walk alone, and do a lot of things without I seek the approval from others.  Things are difficult for me because I am people pleaser, and it is not easy for me to say no  or reject something without I feel guilty about it, even though, it is not a big matter at all.  Life is hard when you have to walk alone and it harder when you have to be unco...

 Disclaimer ; These writing isn't mine. It is from twitter .  https://twitter.com/MakadiaHarsh/status/1589233607264149504?t=wIQ1ZNdeLJOF3FcXmnWFoA&s=08   1. . No one is coming to save you No one is going to come and help you and save you from the cruel world. It'll be up to you to make it out on your own, just like everyone else. You are responsible for your own success. If you want something, you have to go out and get it.   2.   The past is already written Learn from your mistakes and move forward. Make the past better by looking at things from a different perspective. Even the most horrible things can have a positive side if you are willing to see it.     3. Tomorrow is not guaranteed Tomorrow is a day that comes with its own set of uncertainties. Live in the present moment and act now, because that is where progress is made.     4. Just because you’re “Busy” doesn’t mean you’re accomplishing more Stop bragging about y...

 Disclaimer : These pictures are not mine. I saw it in twitter and share it in here.  Sources : https://twitter.com/pathforwisdom/status/1589079338762539009   Life is harsh and hard. These reminders are good to know, thus we can understand the life better.  1. Just Do it. Do not think so much .... Once you got stabbed by your so called friend, the trauma can make you unable to trust that person again. Yes, value those who care and show initiative to be in your life. Be kind always. Don't listen to every negative remark thrown at you. Keep learning. It's okay  .. Just keep on walking... Be calm always... It is the truth. Choose wisely.

 Because once, I was a person who like to prepare for in case situation, thinking, that I might need it in the future, thus, I always buy unnecessary things, that end up I do not have the opportunity to use the item, and I wasted so many money, time and energy for all athat, and maybe contribute to the pollution .. If only I follow my parents footsteps, especially my father who only use the things that he already have, buy the cheapest items he could find, maybe, by now, I have extra money in my bank account ... because I was greedy ... It not easy to turn on back time, thus, I have to accept that I already went through that phase and I regret it, so now, I should be more careful in my spending and behaviour in using the money... Money is not easy to come by for me .. maybe for some, it is easy for others, but not for me ...   

  The thing is, you on your own, nobody care about you, so, you need to care about you more than you think, that other people care about what you do ..   What I mean is that, people already ahs so much on their plate to even care about you .. So what you mess up .. it pass, people will laugh, or joke for it, but only for a little while only, not too long, and learn to take it with a pich of salt   Learn to let it go, learn to let it pass .. as life will keep going and move on, and so should you and your mind ..   You see, there are so many other things that you can focus on, instead of what other people might think or what could have happen …   Have you drink water ? have you wash your face, take a bath, clean your room or organize your things? You see, you might think that these are all small matter, but, these are big matters   .. This what could help you stop from doing all the over thinking that you keep on thinking that actually d...