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Have you encounter this kind of situation? How that makes you feel? Sometimes when this happen, I felt useless to plan because the planning itself takes a lot of energy and of course consume a lot of time. But still planning is crucial. I am not writing about planning, I am writing about the good things when things happen unexpectedly. Well, for some this is like surprise and many do not like surprises. I like surprises because it makes me feel appreciated. The thing is, I always assume bad things happen because of something. Like I have try my best and there will be this little tiny voice telling what I did is not enough, i should put more effort or whatever this voices tell me and it did influence me. It makes me feel small and not confident. But when there is this little good thing hapen unexpectedly, I feel really good and it makes me happy. There is no need to take things seriously and once I done something, I should trust myself. It is not like I do not do anything, it just t...

Sounds serious, but it is a must. For many of us, death also requires money and I am not even talking about our heirs how they are going to live after I or you die, but it is about the cost of funeral. It could cost a bomb and that’s why some of us already plan on it. What kind of funeral I want and how it going to be. We do not want to make the funeral ceremony a burden to our beloved ones, isn’t?   One of the expensive things to have during funeral is casket and it is a very expensive item, depending on type. But thanks because today there are   so many choices to choose from. The burial caskets   will take a lot of time to prepare, but however some can be prepared within 24 hours.    There are so many questions about this funeral and to plan early and maybe just to know more about it, just click here coffins faq and u will gain so many answer for your questions about casket and things that related to it.

Image via Wikipedia I am not a fan of going to trip because I hate the hassleness of things I need to got through in order to do the trip. And as a very worry person I will worry about many things but turn out the more I hate something the more it comes to me. I've been to countless of trips and been moving here and there for many times in my life time. Turn out I like to bring and worry unnecessary things so for my newest trip I decided to be simple and just bring the things I can. Actually I like to plan things and expect what things might have happen so when that things happen I will be ready. Ohh, but it takes many things from me, time, money and energy. Because when you thinking unnecessarry things, you waste many other important things and one of them is the fun. The trip supposed to be a time I can relax and enjoy a new sight, but if I kept worrying about things that could happen I will not able to enjoy things that are in front of me. I should know that everything can be so...

Image via Wikipedia Is it true? It is for me... Been many times friends who called me when they suddenly need help. They only remember when they have something to ask for and ironically when i ask help, it will not go the same way. Like when you suddenly asked a person not to forget her, but you do not do the same. You forget about her and weirdly when you are in trouble, you remember that person. For me, It is good to help because I beleive what comes around goes around. When you do good, you get good. But I know it will not always happen that way. I know about sincerity and never ever hoping that your favour will be return in any way, especially from the same person. For me it is not nice to do that. You want people to help you but you do not want to do the same? wow, nothing free in this world. The thing I learn about kindness is that it will come in a way that it is not expected. Like let say, people who I thought supposed to help me but  do not, and yet come another bett...

Image via Wikipedia iTs been a long time since I put something in this blog. Seems my enthusiasm on writing has decreased… I do not like excuses because for me if there is a will, there is a way. So, the lack of writing is because I lack of will. In fact I visited other people blog more often than I visited mine. Its been a busy months for me, and weirdly it because of family matters. My parents house finally finish of building up… ohh, now I know why a house is so expensive.   But luckily our contractor put a very great price and his job is great. I wish him and his workers all the best in their future endeavors. Great service and great pay. Now I really wish to buy my own house now. My lack writing is also contributed to the fact that I take life more leniently now.   Now I see things differently and able to accept things easier, thus decrease the needs to put it here.   I also take things more slower and do not want to be at rus...