Just a ranting about life, minimalism, gardening, kitchen, food, deco

Do you have extra space like room in your house, or maybe extra house that you do not use? Do not let it be idle, and make it helps you to earn income for you ...it is by sharing your space ... It can be just a room, but , please make sure you decorate the house or the room nicely, comfortably, and beautifully before you share it with others. And please make sure you keep the place clean, as what others treat you right, share a clean space with you ... In return, you will get paid, isn't it good? I mean to earn extra with something you already have? In order to safely received a guest that you is believable safe, and being safeguard by good policy, make sure you choose a good reputable company to help you get the guests that willing to pay for your place. For me, I will choose AIRBNB as it is a good reputable company which is known helped million of guests around the world to find and book a good place to stay in. AIRBNB gave alternatives for people especially traveler ...

As I was reminiscing my youth and planning for my future, turn out, it wasn't easy at all.... It requires hard work, persistence, knowledge, help, determination, time, and the list go on and on ... Once, I was also believer of quick cas, get things easily, and turn out, I wasted a lot of money in the process, when the truth is, to achieve something it requires hard work and persistence. Success won't come overnight, it requires continuous effort with plan ... not exactly perfect plan, but a plan ... A plan of what you actually want to have, and how you want to achieve it, and why  you want to have it. For me, the reasons that I want to do it is because I need to do something, that give benefits to my mind, heart and body and at the same time, helping me to help my family. When you have reasons, you will avoid the attitude of taking it for granted, because then you understand how life is precious that need to fully use it for your own happiness and people around you. ...

When I look back at my previous age, turn out, I wasted on so many things, times, energy, money, emotion and the list could go on and on .... I feel bad ... I always have this emotion that this will not enough, until, I am planning to put roll bed in my car in case I have to sleep somewhere that I do not plan ... I am planning way too much ahead, and I unable to see what is in front of me, to savour moment, to enjoy the time that I have now, and I am worry about what could happen in the future. Then books, as I am a teacher, I buy anything that they sell in the bookstore that could done day be beneficial for my teaching and again, I wasted as most of the books, I unable to use. There are so many books that still not being touch and open by me. then, there is gadget tat I kind being influence to buy, but seldom use, then there are kitchenware that I bought that I hardly use any. turn out, I only need a little bit of items for daily use. So, my motto nowadays is to use what I h...

Be that bigger person that no matter what happen, she rises above it .. even when she is alone … She does not want to be alone, but situation makes her to be alone most of the times … She knows, alone isn’t good … as what she experienced herself …. She is very pitiful … But, she decided to rise above it, and be happy by herself … Actually, it because, she has no other choices … Past experiences have make her as she is today … And she does hoping to be that person … The person who is brave, confident, But, she unable to, No matter how much she imagine it in her head .. So, what she do? She keep on walking while looking down … Why ? Because she lacks confidence to face people around her … But … She work on herself … She buys assets,   she saves her income She takes care of her health, mind and heart She learns to be happy on her own … Because at the end, she is on her own … And she knows, in order for her to able to face people, She must ...

A life where you feel good about yourself, without the need to have the approval of others of how to live your life. A life where positivity is surround you, without you feel hard to get up in the morning. A life that you feel content of what you have without you feel the need to have more, to buy more to get more. A life where you can smile freely at even one single funny thing. A life where you are glad that you are born today, A life where no matter where the life takes you, you can still smile and keep on walking. A life where less is okay, not having what other people have is okay .. A life where   no jealousy, no greed, no bad feelings towards others existed in your heart. A life where you know that where you are now is where you should be, and that make you feel good. A life where you do not have to contastantly searching what could I do more in order to have my life better, because the truth is what you have now is already enough.

Do you leave a place where you are not comfortable with? I am ... I am good with running from people and places that I feel that I am not comfortable with. I know, at times, my attitude is wrong, but I find that I should feel good instead of stress out being with people that I think may not like me or usually because I have bitter experience with them ... That is why my friend always told me not to think about it, ignore it and do something else, as I am a person who like to over thinking and end up with nothing ... so, I found out that is useless ... so, it is better for me to think positively and do something that is good for me ... The thing is, I am the one who lost, because of this .. I do not know whether it is call anxiety or what, but my calmness and happiness is much more important than struggling to be with people who hurt me. I know with the term, people change, and I should too, and now, I am building myself so I can be more confident and happy.

Because it come effortless, naturally, without need to work hard for it, and only once it gone, then we feel lost … I forgot about feeling grateful, feeling blessing because all I can remember is the heartache, the pain that cause by people, no matter who that people is. A single eye gazing could lead to years of friendship, broken into pieces, because of over thinking, because of intonation, things could go very wrong ....Things have become so complicated and messy, with so many things to do, arrange, plan and look forward to.  Challenges keep coming, but it not always, as at times, there will be rainbows too, bad things will pass, so do good things too ... Be in the present, cause the past has past, and the future is yet to come .. enjoy the moment, believe in good things, be positive, be hopeful and persevere. Always try to do your best in your work, in your life, plan for your future, read a lot, and keep good relationship with people no matter what the reason is....