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Overthinking, is it ok?

Nope, it is not ok at all, because there are so many things in the world that is beyond of our control. Why thinking of something that is unnecessary? The thing is, overthinking will eat you from deep inside without you realize it, as it happen to me.

You might think, it just in the head, well, it is, luckily it just in your own head, and what if you voice out everything without care of the situation? Well one thing for sure, it is not good.

If something is bothering you deeply and you cannot stop thinking about it, you stress about it, please do something else that could keep away that negative thought from haunting you, please you must do it. Even though it will unable to keep that thought away, but at least you give your mind and heart a break, a break from the unneccesaary stress and pressure. Stress and pressure could cause a lot of diseases and unpleasant situations, like you cannot enjoy your life and your heart and mind are being distaracted the things that is not good for your body.

I've been through it, and I always always try to do something else so it can distract my mind and I do not stop doing what is I need to do, not I want to do, but the things I need to do for my future. Why forsake your happiness by thinking or doing not so good things? Your life is much precious than what the other matters that hinder you from happiness that you deserve.

Why bringing up the past because the truth is, nothing can change the past, but you can look forward for your beautiful and great future, by focusing on your well being and growth. Life doens't stop when you get rejcted by people you thought should be in your life or thinking they should reciprocate your kindness, well, dearest, things will not happen that way.

Every people has their own gain that they want to achieve. Some able to do it openly, and confidently, and if you like me, a low self confidence person, who has trouble to mix or come forward, so dear, this one for you. You have a future to look forward to, places to travel to, new people who are kinder, challenging and better to meet with, properties and asset that you look forward to have, financial freedom that yo desperately needed so you able to be rich and the list could go on and on... so, don't bother about people, stop thinking of things that has happen, and please look forward to the future ... the bright and great future... lets focus and work hard for it. Be confident that you will have it brightly and be happy no matter what circumstances you are in. Be thankful for every situation that you ahve been through because all the things that happened are shaping you to be a person with wisdom and successful.

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