Just a ranting about life, minimalism, gardening, kitchen, food, deco

First impression is very important, but not only for one party who want to present herself in front of the new people, it is vice versa. First impression does not represent everything about that person. First impression can lie ... there are many sides of that person that are not shown. First impression should not be a place for you to judge a new person. Because once you make a conclusion of a person and turn out what you think is differ from what actually is, then, there will be problems. What kind of problems? Like you cannot accept that you are wrong. Because what you think and jump into conclusion will shape how you are going to treat that person. Even husband and wife who have lived together for a very long time can have problem of understanding each other, let alone for us to understand a person who just we meet. So, shape your mind to think positively. -----> you refer to me. ;)

Once a while, people faced a thing or things that she didn't like or make a decision that she doesn't understand why she makes that decision in the first place. Once a while, that same person will feel hurt and looking and finding ways to correct it ....or maybe find a person that might understand her without the need to jump into conclusion or relate it to any experiences that the supposed listener has or have. Once in a while, that girl went nuts and said the things that she should not and after that she regret it. Because it happen to human. Human that has the weaknesses and always in need of help from people surround them. But it will be impossible to expect them to understand, so, the only solutions that the person has is to be strong by herself, make a wise decision, be strong and move on. But always remember, we all have Allah, the God that you and I can always turn to.