The strength to be kind ...

Actually, it is not easy to be kind, because you have to control the heart, control your tongue and action. It much easier to say whatever that comes to your mind than keep it to yourself. Well, people said that it not good to keep things bottled up in your heart, so say what is in your mind. But, it is not good.

To many things will be ruin and jeopardize and every actions got consequences. It much better to ignore it and have an ear where itw ill go one side and immediately go out to other side without the need for it to stop by in the mind or heart, because it has consequences.

Kind, actually easy, and much better, but it requires a lot of strength. Because turn out, doing bad things, is much easier and more satisfaction at faster rate than doing the nice things. But ....