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Decluttering

Today, I de -cluttered  my stuffs in my room. Throw away all clothes, and rearranging all documents that I have. And there are so many of it. But now I do feel more ease.

I wonder, where these stuffs come in the first place. Then, I remember, I was once in the phase of buying things that I think that I might need it, but at the end, I do not use it at all. So now I have to get rid of it. But then, I have this thought, what a waste, especially financially. If only I save the money, I could have more in my saving now.

Then, are you an over precautious person? I am. If i have to prepare something, I prepare more with this thought, just in case that I might need it, but when the truth, the things that I prepare is already more than enough. Because maybe I hate to do things repeatedly. I guess, i just have to accept things as they are, and not trying to fix everything.

Because currently I am on a very string budget, I have decided to be extra careful with things that I buy now. Only the things that I really needed it that I will buy. Again, I have this thought, it is ok to buy now, so that I do not have to come here again. But, in a rule of spending that I once read, if you will not use the item within three days, do not buy it. But is this rule applicable to all?


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