Heavily occupied of what people think of what you are doing, talking, and even appearances? Well, don’t. It is a bad bad bad things to do. It is wasted, as the only opinion matter is from yourself, and no one else.
People’s opinion do matter, but do not think of what they might think, as it is not your job. You are what you think.
You are grown up woman, you’ve learn a lot, you experienced a lot, so you set to go to conquer the things that you want. It is not your job to identify whether you will succeed or not. Why bother with the outcome when the journey to go there is much better?
But it doesn’t mean you have to be selfish. Listen what people says, but have a good filtering system, because not all what people said is worth to think or to be worry about.
This is a reminder for myself, as she is too worry of what people might think of her.
There are so many drawbacks when you keep on worrying of what people might think, and one of it is, it delaying your success. People have their own mind and thoughts, and people talk. You cannot stop that. But you can help yourself by not think about it and put on more focus of what you want to achieve. People will compare, will talk, and give you so many things, so just believe you deserve when you work hard, and persevere, you on your way to success. You can pull it off, fighting.
Got something from facebook :
Prolonged association with NEGATIVE PEOPLE makes us think negatively; close contact with PETTY individuals develops petty habits in us. Conversely, companionship with people with BIG IDEAS raises the level of our thinking; close contact with AMBITIOUS people gives us ambition.
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