Problems with inferiority complex
Is there anyone having this kind of prolem? I have and its so difficult to change and fix it. But it doesn’t mean that this is a big problem There is a saying, if you do not like something about yourself. Change it and if not try to live with it. I am the second one. I am trying to live with the inferiority complex problem. Its not a big problem to me as I have began to accept the problem and I know there must be a rewards beside this problem.
But let me tell you what the problems and consequences can arise from this kind of trait.
Because of this trait, the inferiority complex, I am a person with a very low self confidence, and always things that everything happen by accident, not because I made it happen. There will always a feeling of worry inside of me and its difficult for me to enjoy many things, because of this worry feeling.
I prefer to take care of other feelings than myself. I am afraid of what I do will hurt them and I begin to become very careful with my actions and words. Used to be when I was small, I am not this kind of person. I was very outspoken and very talkataive and I really forget how I can turn out to be this person with inferiority complex person.
But, it wasn’t easy at all to take care of the feeling of others, so, I prefer to be in my own world. I created my own world, where I can have my own happiness and freedom without bothering other people opinion, it more that people will not care I do as I am doing it alone. I prefer to spend my time in front of the computer watching a same clips a thousand times than spend with friends and talking. I begin to have a problem to socialize with people and I prefer to have one friend that I can share everything than to having many friends. But that’s cause more problem to arise.
Let me start problem with friends. Because I prefer to have one friend, I will treat that person really good, cater to all her needs even when that person do not ask at all. I am just hoping that, that person will treat me good.
I forgot to include that inferiority makes me a sensitive person too.
But when that person is treat me bad, even small bad, that thing will hurt me like a sharp knife stab into my heart. I will remember it and it become a nightmare to me. I am sad. It so weird, because to think it logically, it just a friend, why should I expect anything from that person? Why should I bother?
But that’s the problem. I bother it too much and it killing me from inside. I become a stranger to that person and I cannot treat her the same way before. It start from a very small matter. I hate myself for become a very sensitive person.
Sometime I felt very jealous to a person who can say whatever she or he wants to say without care about other people’s feeling.
Now, I will list out the benefits that I get from inferiority complex.
It teaches me to be humble, and it teaches me to be patient to whatever happening to me. I always think that there must be something for me if I do not give up. I struggle to list and say to myself that I cannot give up and must go on no matter what. My destiny is on my own hands.
But it seem that if I make comparison between the good and the bad, the bad will be more than the good.
But let me tell you what the problems and consequences can arise from this kind of trait.
Because of this trait, the inferiority complex, I am a person with a very low self confidence, and always things that everything happen by accident, not because I made it happen. There will always a feeling of worry inside of me and its difficult for me to enjoy many things, because of this worry feeling.
I prefer to take care of other feelings than myself. I am afraid of what I do will hurt them and I begin to become very careful with my actions and words. Used to be when I was small, I am not this kind of person. I was very outspoken and very talkataive and I really forget how I can turn out to be this person with inferiority complex person.
But, it wasn’t easy at all to take care of the feeling of others, so, I prefer to be in my own world. I created my own world, where I can have my own happiness and freedom without bothering other people opinion, it more that people will not care I do as I am doing it alone. I prefer to spend my time in front of the computer watching a same clips a thousand times than spend with friends and talking. I begin to have a problem to socialize with people and I prefer to have one friend that I can share everything than to having many friends. But that’s cause more problem to arise.
Let me start problem with friends. Because I prefer to have one friend, I will treat that person really good, cater to all her needs even when that person do not ask at all. I am just hoping that, that person will treat me good.
I forgot to include that inferiority makes me a sensitive person too.
But when that person is treat me bad, even small bad, that thing will hurt me like a sharp knife stab into my heart. I will remember it and it become a nightmare to me. I am sad. It so weird, because to think it logically, it just a friend, why should I expect anything from that person? Why should I bother?
But that’s the problem. I bother it too much and it killing me from inside. I become a stranger to that person and I cannot treat her the same way before. It start from a very small matter. I hate myself for become a very sensitive person.
Sometime I felt very jealous to a person who can say whatever she or he wants to say without care about other people’s feeling.
Now, I will list out the benefits that I get from inferiority complex.
It teaches me to be humble, and it teaches me to be patient to whatever happening to me. I always think that there must be something for me if I do not give up. I struggle to list and say to myself that I cannot give up and must go on no matter what. My destiny is on my own hands.
But it seem that if I make comparison between the good and the bad, the bad will be more than the good.
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