Things don't magically happen overnight

Things that we want, we need to work hard for it, wait for it, keep the faith and believe that whatever we want, we can achieve it, we can get it. Positive attitude that must come with it. Sometimes, it takes a lot of challenges for it to actually happen, but because of the believe and faith, it can happen, some will take days, years, month, and that's why patient and perseverance are very very important. Life is full of surprises with ups and downs, but it cannot stop me from keep on walking and chasing what I want in life. Even though most of the times, I have to walk alone. But, however alone I may feel, god, Allah, is always there.

Then, there is the power of prayer, as whatever we want in life, we need to pray for it. People, like me, usually only pray for money and wealth, forgot little things that are important like health, happiness, good friends, good family, calmness in the heart, a good spouse, and pray that I will be hinder from bad people who only come for a purpose, and once their purpose is materialized, they will walk away, and once this happen, you will feel a sense of betrayal and it could linger in your heart for a long time, so, you must find a way to erase this sick feeling in the heart because a painful heart could cause a lot of other bad things, not only in the body but can destroyed your inner peace and your self confidence.

Things I want in life, success, money, richness, happinesss, cannot happen overnight, but it will takes a long time, as we have our own time zone, but we cannot give up, but must keep on walking, believe and keep on going. Avoid unnecessary drama and things that make i uncomfortable or things that could create problems.

But in life, you need to have faith, a strong conviction and perseverance in facing a lot of things in life and believe that whatever that happen is for your own good. But, do not stop to chase good things in life... and to trust your instinct.

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